{"id":2109,"date":"2014-06-09T12:43:47","date_gmt":"2014-06-09T12:43:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/192.154.101.236\/~nancyalv\/?p=2109"},"modified":"2023-04-02T14:33:08","modified_gmt":"2023-04-02T18:33:08","slug":"efectos-del-divorcio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/efectos-del-divorcio\/","title":{"rendered":"Efectos del divorcio sobre los hijos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nothing that relates to the human being is static, even less if it has to do with their conduct, behavior and feelings. <\/span>In recent years, there has been a change in how divorce affects children. <\/span>For many years divorce was viewed as a family disaster. <\/span>Recently, some theorists have argued that divorce is a family crisis that has the potential, like any crisis, to produce growth and change. <\/span>According to therapist Kathleen O’Connell Corcoran, children’s psychological reactions to <\/span>their parents’ <\/span><\/span>divorce<\/span><\/span><\/a> depend on three factors:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. The quality of the relationship with each parent<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  2. The intensity and duration of the parental conflict<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  3. The ability of such parents to adequately address the needs of their children during and after the divorce.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Thus, when the children maintain a continuous and good quality relationship with both parents, the probabilities that they will have balanced and functional relationships in the future increase. <\/span>Since children learn to be and sustain significant relationships based on the relationships they have with their parents. <\/span>\u00abIf they feel safe in their relationships with their parents, then they will learn to trust and be trustworthy in their adult relationships\u00bb\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

    (Joaqu\u00edn Disla. MA)<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

    If it is the mother who remains with the custody of the children, the parents must commit to the lives of their children and support in the economic aspect. <\/span>Not only is this important, the child needs support in other areas of life, such as sports, artistic, extracurricular activities, clothing, travel, recreation, etc.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

    A determining factor is the mother’s attitude towards the father’s relationship with the child. <\/span>When they leave the marriage and withdraw from their role as father, it is due to conflicts with the <\/span><\/span>ex-partner<\/span><\/span><\/a> , that is, with the mother, this being the main reason for being absent from the presence of the children.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/strong>TYPICAL REACTIONS OF CHILDREN TO DIVORCE<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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    • Denial<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Strong feeling of abandonment<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Concern about getting information about what is happening<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Anger and hostility<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Depression<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Immaturity or Hypermaturity<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Concern with reconciliation of parents<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
    • They feel accused and guilty for what has happened<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      RESUME<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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      • A change has occurred in how divorce affects children.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
      • For years divorce was considered a family disaster. <\/span>Today some experts argue that divorce is a family crisis and as such can produce growth and change.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
      • Children learn to maintain meaningful relationships based on the relationships they have with their parents. <\/span>If children feel secure in their relationships with their parents, they learn to trust and be trustworthy in their adult relationships.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        Most of the times that parents leave the marriage and withdraw from their role as father, it is due to conflicts with the mother.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        Nothing that relates to the human being is static, even less if it has to do with their conduct, behavior and feelings. In recent years, there has been a change in how divorce affects children. For many years divorce was viewed as a family disaster. Recently, some theorists have argued that divorce is a family […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":4427,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_lock_modified_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[115,14,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2109","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-asi-piensa-nancy","category-familiares","category-sin-categoria"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2109"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2109"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2109\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7916,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2109\/revisions\/7916"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4427"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dranancy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}